Why Do Guys Like BJ? 10 Reasons why men love BJ

“earnestly… Why do guys like BJ and ask their girlfriends for it?”

What is the interest surrounding BJ?

The purpose of this article is not to offend in any way. Instead, the goal is to help women have a close, fruitful, lasting, and passionate relationship with their partners. Most guys enjoy blowjobs, and most women don’t like giving it.

Let’s dive into the main topic and why guys are requesting blowjobs.

Knowing Men: What makes guys Like BJ?

It is interesting to note that men sometimes have difficulty knowing women. Likewise, women have trouble understanding men. For example:

So many men don’t get why many women say things they don’t mean, can never tell what they want to eat, or why women can be such emotional and changeable beings.

Similarly, women sometimes misunderstand the notion behind men wanting sex/blowjobs. Many women have come to dislike men and think they’re always after sex just because it serves their ego.

In some States and customs, men see women as sex tools only and take no responsibility for their actions towards women. No women likely want to be involved in such sexual conduct with men. Therefore they should avoid such men and groups.

Giving blowjobs should be done inside a committed relationship. When a woman understands why some men are always asking for blowjobs, they are likely to make the relationship exciting and loving to her man. Similarly, it is difficult for a man to cheat on his girl if the girl understands what the man wants and does it perfectly well.

Men Like BJ Because It Allows Him To Access His Dark Masculine Energy

A blow job is a good way for a man to access his dark masculine energy – his desire to control and show his prowess.

People become sick, twisted, cold, and disconnected from one another – not when they get blow jobs, but when they reject this animalistic urge inside them for a long time. Some women have a desire to be dominated by the most men around with a very high value.

Every man desires to feel like he has the freedom to dominate and take charge of his woman now and then. Yes, even the gentlemen who try not to show their dark side.

Accept his dark part! The more you reject it, the more you are drawn to it, and the more our dark sides come out in twisted, pitiful ways that hurt others!

Also – this need to take control is not restricted to men only. It is essential to say that some women need to dominate sexually, while some men need to be submissive sexually to their women.

However, I want to acknowledge that some women dominate, and that’s okay. I certainly do doubt that most men have a deep-seated need to be dominated by women. Some men do. However, in most cases, men need to surrender to pleasure and lovemaking – and that is, of course, the reason why men love blow jobs.

Why Do Guys Like BJ

Admiration

Most men love their dicks. Sincerely, I am yet to meet one who doesn’t like his penis. When you put your guy’s manhood into your mouth, it shows one thing. That, you love him, and it will make him feel admired. You love the side of him that ultimately makes him feel like a man.

And on the other side, if you’re declining your man’s penis via oral sex, you are essentially saying that you ‘reject him’ or that you don’t love him and admire him. Fascinating how much bounding happens from just one little act.

Every man gets to feel like his woman admires him for being a man; love the sex you were born as, and the sex you love to be with forever.

A Symbol of Submission

Submission is one of the best reasons why men love blowjobs…

There has to be an element of submission. This is one fast way for a man to feel more like a man; having his woman give him oral sex.

However, we perceive something captivating when we don’t take out the dark side. We can start to see that from one perspective, giving a blow job can feel like an act of submission to the man.

The very act of getting down on your knees for him is one of submission. It’s one of the services men are looking for. You are giving your man joy and pride without any act of shame or regret. You have to be open to him. You have to obey him. And for a strong masculine man, it shows that you love and trust him. It helps him feel more like a happy manly man. If you’re down on your knees, you are making yourself submissive to him. You’re giving him the authority to dominate.

A Blow Job Can Be A Sign That You Love & Accept A Man

Here is a bit dirty secret…

Many men see blowjobs as an ultimate part of love and acceptance… it means so much to men, and they expect their women to give them. And it means so much to them.

At some point, you can ask your guy which part of his body means so much to him; he is likely to point to his “Package.” But, again, this is because they value it and love it so much. Don’t be shy of giving it to your guy… he will feel love and acceptance.

A Symbol of Vulnerability And Trust

Can I ask a question?

Are you open to your man? Do you trust him enough to ask him specific questions like does it feel good down there? Is it faster or slower?

Every masculine being wanted to be trusted by his woman. That is very HUGE for masculine energy. When you go down there, you tell your man that you trust him and are vulnerable to him. Every man wants that. Be comfortable around your man, look into his eyes and ask him specific questions. I can bet you he will give a positive response.

I can remember a friend telling me how he loves it when his girl gives him a blowjob… This smile radiated from his face, and I can tell you that he felt trusted and vulnerable to his girl.

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It Gives A Man A Sense Of Connection

It is no doubt a woman doesn’t need sex to feel connected to a man. A woman can be connected even to animals.

Can the same thing be said of a man?

Every man needs sex and blowjobs to feel a sense of connection. In a situation whereby his woman denies him that, it is likely, that the man will look elsewhere.

There is a tendency for a couple who doesn’t have sex, and the opportunity arrives for sex. Every chance the man might feel that the woman doesn’t love him that much. Every man and woman wants sex, and they are sex-driven creatures. Sex and procreation are behind this drive, and they can shy away from it.

Though some women dislike the idea of giving their men blowjobs, this is because they hate the tendency of being vulnerable.

A Sense of Relaxation for Guys

Have you noticed that men don’t feel as strong a drive to talk as some women do to connect with other humans?

Why do men perceive so much connection when it comes to sex?

Men don’t usually communicate with other men the way women communicate and are open to other women (and men). It can be so difficult for a man to go to his guy friends to talk, connect, and feel welcome and love.

The masculine strength is all about doing whatever it requires, at whatever cost, to get the job done well. They will be moving forward to the next challenge, putting an end to everything – and moving on.

A blow job is a form of a woman’s signal to her man that it is beautiful for him to calm down and surrender to the actual world of fun and love for now.

It is a good runaway for him. And what’s so beautiful about his woman doing it is that she is the one giving him the permission and the chance for him to experience that surrender.

Men don’t want to be out of control. On the contrary, they want to be in charge. Therefore, one must be calm and relaxed to enjoy the benefits of not being in control entirely, and this propels him to surrender to pleasure, satisfaction, and connection.

Love Love Love

There are many ways we give and receive love: It can be kissing, hugging, buying gifts, going out to dinner at a nice restaurant to eat, having a good touch, saying “I love you,” and more of such good times.

While there are so many ways to express love, men have a particular association with love and sex that is different from many women. Have you ever thought or asked yourself: “Why must it be always about sex?” Maybe at least you have heard a girl ask it? TAKE NOTE: MEN LOVE SEX

Did you understand that? They LOVE it, and they will always want it. They perceive it like that and always dream about it. You have to understand and digest the sentences above and trust that they are all true.

For a man, if a woman wants to have sex with him always, it means she loves and values him and is attracted to him. The masculine energy places so much importance and significance in a woman being attracted to him sexually. So when this beautiful creature that he’s excellently sexually attracted to is also super sexually attracted to him…. he understands it. It is his language, and he understands it perfectly well.

Don’t be surprised. Get this, girls. When you have sex with your man, oxytocin is being released. It is usually the feel-good chemical that gets you to a man and makes you think you are in love. It happens to all of us, too. This is also why you should be conscious of who you sleep with. You are chemically bonded to them for up to 9 or more weeks!

It’s just sexy for Men

Men love it when they feast their eyes. And it looks sexy when you also have his member in your mouth. Men love to watch when you are going down on them (have you noticed that?). So prepare a show out of it. Wear sexy clean underwear. Position yourself in front of a mirror. Look up at him occasionally and smile. He will eat that shit up! I promise you that.

So am I saying that you have to give your man a blowjob every single day to experience long-lasting happiness in your relationship?

Well, maybe I am saying just that. But if not, at least twice a week!

I hope by now you have come to the knowledge that it’s more than just oral sex: it is respecting your man, it’s being vulnerable, it’s deepening your connection. Also, it’s trusting him, and it’s opening up into your pure feminine essence.

It’s virtually stress-free for us

Unlike regular normal sex, where we have to be concerned about being hard enough, big enough, and long-lasting enough, “lingual love” does not carry with it any such angst-inducing pressures. Instead, we are just free to relax and enjoy ourselves, knowing that our orgasm will come at the appropriate time — no matter how soon it might take.

Giving your man a blowjob is a form of stress-free fun to him, and he will love you more and will always come back for more and thanks to you.

It’s all about Recreation — not procreation

The goal here is pleasure, not any form of progeny. In other words, it’s an opportunity to have a good time without the risk of 10 years of financial commitment. It’s orgasm without a price attached to it, and we like that and enjoy it.

Some men want that pleasure, doing everything possible to have it. Some men go the extra mile by giving bribes to achieve it.

Does This Mean You Have To Give Blow Jobs?

I won’t tell you that you must give blow jobs.

I’m not here to advise you that you should give blow jobs. But I am here to let you know that a blow job is valuable and important to your man. You are a grown, beautiful woman, and you can make your own choices and leave happily with them.

But this advantage is just here for perspective. It is only something for you to give a second thought and consider very well. It helps to understand what is essential and valuable to your man in a relationship.

Maybe you are not just ready to give blow jobs right away, which is okay. That is fine, and it is crucial. I acknowledge you to accept that you don’t feel ready – and ask yourself why you don’t feel ready.

Your Man Will Have To Accept That He Is In A Relationship With A Female

You are a woman at the end of the day, and you naturally have menstrual cycles. And as such, your desire for sex will continually change.

Your feeling for sex may be based on the time of the month, where you are in the world, how you feel. It may also be found on how your man makes you happy, how much trust and belief you feel for your man, how willing you are to commit and be out of control, and even how your girlfriend(s) make you think.

Men will have to accept that if they want a woman in their lives, they must appreciate that they have a woman.

Women are not ready for sex all the time – occasionally, she might go through a period like that, but typically, she has not got 200 million sperm that she makes every day that has to be released.

Women only release one egg per month, and often, how much she desires sex is usually tied closely to the mechanism of that egg and where her cycle falls.

As for a blow job, even if you don’t want to give a blow job, it’s still valuable to a man. So just because, as a woman, you don’t feel that it’s worthwhile doesn’t mean that our man doesn’t think that it’s valuable to him.

For example, your man might not perceive much value in being romantic and generous to his woman, but his woman does, and it’s the same thing for every woman!

So if your man does show romance and considers anyway (at least now and then, maybe a few times a year), it means to her that he cares about you and loves you.

Living In Your Feminine Energy

To make it simple, if a woman is open to experiencing her dark and light sexual feelings, her feminine energy, she will understand this.

Suppose she appreciates and chooses to understand rather than decline the masculine energy. In that case, she will have no trouble understanding and even enjoying the fact that her man gets some of his needs met through sex and having a blowjob.

It is much easier to have a healthy, beautiful relationship with your man when you are open to all parts of your man (and yourself). As uncomfortable and complicated as it can be, you have to try and give in.

Thanks for reading! I appreciate the time you spend reading this… What are your thoughts on why do guys like BJ? Leave a comment below and share with us your experiences, the good, the bad, and the worst. Thanks!!!

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